In the "
Like a Boy" video
Ciara wonders what would happen if the roles with her lover were reversed and she were able to act like a boy. She then grabs her crotch and asks if the things guys do to girls, including messing with their minds, would still be acceptable if their gender roles were reversed.
The Like a Boy video is quite provocative and raises a number of questions about the way men treat women and ultimately asks why boys have to behave so badly. Other music videos address similar subjects, but none so naughtily.